If that's the case why you haven't asked your friend to let you how he/she had done it?
I must point out, that at the beginning of your first post you said this > "I cannot get effects. I right-clicked on myself during a conversation
and chose install. It completed and after that I couldn't select
effects. I don't see any effect options anywhere. I reinstalled
everything but the effect option still can't be found anywhere."
And now you say, you don't have a webcam, hmmm which is it?
I'm a bit confuse by what some users want, if they just take the time and read what is already docummented within various threaded sites, and in this, and other forum program forum sites. You'll have a much better understanding of how those programs work.